GOD WILL NOT LET ME LOSE
One of the worst things you can do for your game is to specifically move somewhere to “work on your game.”
This is especially the case when you are young.
Here’s why:
When you pick up and move your entire life to a foreign country, you’re not solving the problem.
You are avoiding it.
Deep down, you lack faith in yourself.
For example, when a white kid can’t get girls in his home country, he thinks he is beating the system by moving to some piss poor Asian country.
He’s not.
He’s simply lowering the bar.
He doesn’t have to change.
He can stay the same, go to Thailand, and live life in God mode.
Previously undesirable, he will get girls. High status will be a given.
Does that mean there is nothing to be gained from living it up abroad? Absolutely not.
Going outside your comfort zone and traveling to foreign lands is an amazing experience.
You might even say it is the key to living a full life.
Also, easy pussy is a great confidence booster, especially in the short term.
But what happens when you decide to come home?…
There is a choice to make. You can either stay abroad and live like a king or go back home and return to average.
Going the John Smith route is often a cop out.
I think there are far more powerful alternatives. Here’s mine:
GOD WILL NOT LET ME LOSE.
That is my default mindset for women (everything really). It’s a new affirmation I came up with.
Take it in. Let it settle.
God will not let me lose.
No matter what I do, God will not let me lose.
No matter where I go, God will not let me lose.
It’s a mindset.
And it’s the most powerful mindset you can have.
It’s how you remain confident.
It’s how you remain cool, calm, and collected.
It is the ultimate way to state your faith in yourself and in the Universe.
In a way, it’s liberating.
When you think like this, you just let go.
You’re not going out all the time hitting on girls.
You’re not dedicating hours to day game.
You’re not spam messaging chicks on Tinder or Plenty of Fish.
It’s already been decided.
GOD will not let you lose…
I put 0% effort in to getting girls.
I put 100% effort in to myself.
Because of this I know that GOD/the Universe will take care of the rest.
And He has… history proves it.
Long Island (high school years).
North Carolina (college/grad school).
Washington DC (Summer 2011).
Austin, Texas.
Las Vegas, Nevada.
Even when I was at my lowest point stuck in my parents house (after grad school), the Universe brought a great girl in to my life.
That’s the point. God has never let me lose in the dating game and He never will.
I have traded in “the life in Sin City” for Small Town, USA.
The younger guys don’t seem to get it.
“How can you leave Las Vegas?”
“You’re giving up Sin City?”
Yup.
That’s the point.
It doesn’t matter where I go.
I can move anywhere in the US and still have an awesome dating life.
My dating life is nowhere near the top of my list of my priorities. All I know is that GOD will put the right girls in my life.
I can move to Devil’s Lake, North Dakota.
Will I bang as many hot girls as I did in Las Vegas or Austin? Fuck no.
But somehow, someway… GOD will throw a gem my way.
That’s just how it’s always been. That’s how it will always be.
That’s how I want you guys to start thinking.
If GOD has not let you win yet… Don’t give up. Don’t lose faith.
As long as you remain positive and do all the right things… WINNING is right around the corner.
Here’s how you can fast forward to NOW:
1. Read this article on value.
2. Read this article on intangibles.
3. Send me an e-mail to start working with me.
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Not my experience, but I like the affirmation without the explanation. In the sense that wherever I am and whatever I do, god is with me and whatever happens is okay.
Yup always have faith in yourself.