My Regular Private Training Option

I am now offering private training for individuals seeking to work with me 1-on-1 in order to improve their dating life and people skills. But first, let’s get one thing clear.

I am not a fan of traditional pick-up “bootcamps” or “workshops.”

They do not work and they do not get you immediate results. Most bootcamps give potential students the false hope of becoming a “master with women” after a 3 day program.

This will never happen. I promise you that. It never happens. I know this because I have a significant amount of knowledge on what goes in the PUA industry. I personally known several of the “top guys” in that community. And I know several former students who have wasted thousands of dollars. For legal reasons, I will not be mentioning names.

The Cliff’s Notes on the Traditional PUA Bootcamp

Here is what typically happens: A kid believes the hype that a “Master PUA” can help him become a “master with women.” A kid is so desperate to improve his dating life in as short amount of time as possible.

As a result, he forks over a few grand to take a bootcamp. During the bootcamp, he is told to approach everything on site. He does that for three days straight. At the end, the instructor reiterates how much progress the student has made and the student agrees because they typically do not have the confidence in the first place to object (voice their true feelings). Plain and simple, most students are pushovers.

Then they go back to their normal lives. They’re dating lives don’t improve much. They are even more socially awkward because of their newfound love of uncalibrated spam approaching. And they are out a couple grand.

Bottom Line: For a few thousand dollars, the only value you get (in most instances) is some guy telling you to approach and how you can improve your “game.”

The Strength By Sonny Program

I am in the business of people. I was taught the importance of becoming good with people and genuinely enjoying their company. As a result, women always came naturally to me.

My philosophy is very simple.

Every guy out there is their own business… a unique brand. That business must maximize its physical attractiveness and ability to effectively communicate with people in general.

That’s called playing the game with the odds in your favor. That’s how you get women. That’s how you attract all people.

People skills must be your base. If you do not have good people skills, you will not be happy with your social life. Furthermore, you will not have the dating life you want. That’s common sense.

The ability to communicate and “just be normal”… this is what holds most potential students back. I know this. They don’t know how to network with people in general. As a result, they stand little to no chance with women. This is why they often live lonely sexless lives.

Don’t kid yourself. If you have poor social skills and are unhappy with your dating life… you will never improve your situation unless you come up with a viable solution with strong communication skills at the forefront.

What to Expect on a Strength By Sonny Program

It will not be like any traditional PUA bootcamp. We are not going to be going out into “the field” to do endless amounts of spam approaching.

Our goal is simple: We need to get you in the habit of becoming an overall better communicator. We need to alter how you approach the world. We need to get you to adopt the mentality that you are a brand competing in the business of people.

I have three days to tell you everything you need to know (going forward) about what is needed to maximize your value both from a physical (maximizing looks) and expressive (communication) standpoint.

Here’s the breakdown…

Day 1

This is when we first meet. This is where I get to know you better. You will tell me everything about you. You will tell me everything you want to tell me (from your childhood upbringing to now). Within the first few minutes, I will read you like a book. Don’t worry, I will be using my Cliff’s Notes.

Tonality, body language, eye contact… I will be paying attention to everything. I will put the pieces together and tell you exactly who you are. I will not sugar coat it. I will know exactly who you are in a short amount of time. I will be completely honest with you.

We will first go to a venue where attractive women are the norm. Strip club. Hooters. Other restaurants with attractive waitresses. Your choice.

The purpose of this is for me to see you interacting and conversing with attractive women in a non-pressure situation (ex. straight up cold approach). You will also get to see me interacting and conversing as well.

I will also go over what you need to do to maximize your physical attractiveness. We will go over specific workout routines and meal plans. Just bring a notebook to write it all down.

Day 1 will conclude with me giving you an assessment of what I see in you. Your strengths. Your weaknesses. Where we go from here. I will tell all.

Day 2

Day 2 is when we put the pedal to the metal. We will be approaching girls in public. Coffee shops. Malls. Book stores. We will put in work. You will see me approach women. You will see women attracted to me immediately. You will see me get rejected. You will see me get numbers. You might even see me do more.

More importantly, I will watch you and give you detailed feedback on what you are doing well and what you still need to work on.

Throughout the day, I will also take you to various stores to give you specific fashion advice. I will go over the do’s and don’ts of fashion for you specifically.

At night, we will go out to some bars and clubs. You will see me in action and how I operate at night. You will be operating alongside me. I will be talking a big game for you and doing everything I can to assist you when you’re interacting with chicks. You will learn a lot.

  • how to work a venue
  • how to approach girls
  • how to network with people (the cool kids)
  • how to know who’s who and “judge a book by its cover”
  • how and when to get physical
  • how to pull
  • how to get laid

Day 2 will conclude with us going over the entire day. I will answer all of your questions. I will give you my observations on how the day went. Strengths. Weaknesses. Improvements. I will go over them all.

Day 3

Day 3 will build off of day 2. We will be out all day. Of course, we will approach when the situation calls for it. But more importantly, we will continue to learn how the world works from a social and networking standpoint. After all, that’s what will be your bread and butter will be going forward.

At night, we will put it all together. We will be networking and working the venue together. I will do everything I can to help you pull and get laid.

We will conclude your program on your terms. We will go over whatever you want. I will give you my best last minute advice.

The Aftermath and My Promise

Most PUA companies will take you money and run. Once your program is over, you will never see or hear from them again… unless you take another program with them. Then they will be your best friend again.

Not me. I will always be your friend. I promise I will keep in touch with you after your program is over. I promise I will be staying on top of you to work on the shit that I instructed you to take care of.

You can contact me by e-mail as often as you would like and we can Skype once a month at your convenience. My door will always be open for questions and advice.

Closing Thoughts

I have been in the business of people my entire life. As a result, it has enabled me to have a unique outlook on how people communicate and why certain individuals have more social and dating success than others. I have been very fortunate to have the dating and social life I have wanted ever since I was in middle school.

This is not an accident. I had mentors guiding me along the way instructing me how the world works and how to position myself to give my brand the best chance at success. Because of this… having cool friends and dating high-quality girls was inevitable.

This program will ingrain this mentality in your head…

You are a brand competing in the business of people.

This program is valuable because I am going to be your personal branding consultant for 3 days. For three days, everything I say and do will be for the sole purpose of building your brand up… to make your brand as valuable as possible.

Learn to observe people. Learn where your brand currently stands. Learn how to improve that brand. Learn how to communicate with people in general. Learn how to communicate with women. Learn situational awareness. Learn how to improve your image and make yourself as physically attractive as possible. Learn how to dress. Learn how to work out. Learn what to eat. Learn how to “work” a venue. Learn how to lead women. Learn how to pull the trigger. Learn how to close.

Learn how to have respect and value for yourself. And ultimately, learn how to win the business of people.

I’ve said my piece.

Now it’s time to say yours.

If you are interested in working with me, contact me using the form below so we can get started.

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