How can you tell if a girl likes you? It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves before.
As always, I will do my best to give you the most complete and honest explanation.
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Explanation)
To summarize, here are the most tell-tale signs that a girl likes you:
1. She reciprocates your steady eye contact.
2. She goes out of her way to initiate small talk with you.
3. She asks personal questions. (ex. “Do you have a girlfriend?”; “Are you seeing someone?”; “What’s your ethnicity?”; etc.)
4. She goes out of her way to do favors for you.
5. She is comfortable getting physically close to you or even touching you.
6. She chases after you wanting to exchange numbers and hang out. This is basically chick cold approach.
*** BONUS: She genuinely compliments you.
As always, no explanation would be complete without some sort of demonstration or example. Below you will find a full-infield video (broken up in to five parts) illustrating a real life interaction where you see these concepts played out.
The dialogue has been transcribed (for those of you who like to read what was said).
I also note where I am interacting with certain bartenders. It can get confusing at times. There are 3 that I interact with on some level throughout these videos.
The girl who really likes me (Bartender 3) does everything on this list.
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Infield Video- Part I)
0:28- How’s it going? *** Bartender 1
0:36- Can I get you started with one of our handcraft beers?
0:41- Nah. Lemme just get a menu for food.
0:55- Thank you.
0:57- You need a few minutes?
4:08- Have you been helped? *** Bartender 2
4:09- Yeah I know what I want to order.
4:11- I’ll have a coke to drink and then 12 BBQ wings and then that’s it
4:18- Ranch or bleu cheese? (I shake my head)
5:30- Thank you. How’s your day going? *** I’m making simple small talk here. “How’s your day going” is one of the easiest ways to get the ball rolling.***
5:32- It’s going good how’s yours?
5:40- Did she introduce us?
5:42- I think so yeah.
5:44- Is this your first time here?
5:46- I’ve been here once before. I also used to live in Texas. I see Dallas huh? What part of Dallas? (I see on her name tag)
6:07- She names place… “You know where that is?”
6:16- Nobody knows.
6:17- Yeah yeah yeah last year I was living in Austin.
6:21- Where you from originally though?
6:22- New York.
6:25- There’s only 2 places I can be from: New York or New Jersey
6:32- Every once in a while I’ll throw a loophole and be like “Oh Idaho.”
6:34- Idaho? (She’s joking around with me)
7:31- Are you drinking soda at a bar? Why are you drinking soda at a bar? *** This is Bartender 3. I was not her customer. She was giving me eye contact and then came over to make small talk with me. Why? Because she likes me. This is a tell-tale sign that a girl likes you.
7:36- I’m just getting lunch.
7:37- You can’t have like one drink?
7:40- Nah I try to limit drinking.
7:44- Are you about all those gains and working out and stuff?
7:46- Nah I just go through periods I guess… I told myself 4th of July weekend was gonna be the last time I drink for a little bit. I’ll drink again for my birthday.
8:00- That’s good though. Is your birthday coming up?
8:02- Yea September 20.
8:03- Nice how old are you turning?
8:07- You look young. That’s a good thing though. *** Compliments are a bonus.
8:08- Nice. Probably cuz I’m not drinking.
8:12- What’s your ethnicity? *** She’s getting a bit more personal. If a chick asks you this questions, this is a good sign.
8:13- I’m a mix. I’m half Filipino half Russian.
8:15- Oh wow.
8:18- Yea. My dad… he’s a little guy from the Philippines and my mom is tall blonde and Russian. Yeah my dad… he’s a little pimp.
9:27- Actually, I almost moved to Dallas. *** Bartender 2
9:33- Yeah 2 years ago I almost got a place in The Village.
9:34- Okay why didn’t you?
9:36- Umm I had just finished school so I was looking for jobs and then a better opportunity came up and I went to Austin.
9:44- Okay. Austin’s nice. I like Austin a lot better than Dallas.
9:52- Yeah. I was in Dallas for about a month last summer for training.
9:53- What do you do?
9:54- That was my old job I run my own business now.
9:57- What’s your business now?
9:58- Now I’m anything health and fitness…
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Infield Video- Part II)
0:00-0:10- … I’m also branching off in to helping recent college graduates with their personal branding… as far as getting that first job out of school.
0:11- Ok. Yeah they always need that.
0:16- But yeah I was in Dallas for about a month it was pretty cool there.
0:21- It’s different. It’s like here.
0:25- Actually, it reminded me a little bit of LA.
0:27- Oh I’ve heard that.
0:33- I went to the infiniti pool at the W a couple of times. It was pretty cool.
0:40- A little too much for me… I’m a country girl.
0:45- I could tell.
7:45- What’s going on?
7:46- Not much. What are you doing? *** Bartender 1
7:52- Just writing down ideas and stuff. (I’m always writing in my notebook like I always do.)
7:58- What kind of stuff?
8:00- Business stuff.
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Infield Video- Part III)
0:40- another girl brings me my food
4:17- How are your wings? *** Bartender 3
4:22- You know how you should have gotten your wings? You should have gotten them blackened.
4:23- What’s that?
4:24- It’s not on the menu.
4:29- Yea. How good are the blackened wings? (asking the other bartenders)
4:32- I’ll have to order that next time.
4:33- It’s like a blackened seasoning tossed on the wings and it’s so good. Then you don’t have to worry about licking your fingers.
4:41- Yeah? I like licking my fingers though. (This is obviously alluding to other things.)
4:44- I guess if that’s what you’re in to. (Giggling because she likes it) What is that BBQ?
4:49- BBQ’s good too.
4:51- You should have tried blackened.
4:52- I didn’t know. Now I know.
4:53- I’m gonna get you one. I’m gonna get a single blackened wing.
4:56- Can you get it right now?
4:57- I’m gonna get it right now? *** This is another tell-tale sign. Anytime a chick goes out of her way to do a special favor for you, you’re money.
4:58- Alright. That’d be awesome. Thank you.
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Infield Video- Part IV)
6:17- Bartender 3 brings me my blackened wing and says “Get ready for the best wings of your life.”
6:21- Yeah? I’ve had a lot of good ones.
6:22- Not like that though.
6:29- That’s good.
6:30- It’s good huh? (She’s waiting to see if she did a good job. She did.)
6:33- Yeah. Thank you.
6:34- Now you know how to order.
How can you tell if a girl likes you? (Full Infield Video- Part V)
1:19- Bartender 1 writes me a cute note.
2:35- She clarifies what she wrote.
3:17- As I go to leave the restaurant, Bartender 3 is hoola hooping at the door. I mess her up to play with her.
3:21- Bye! Call me!
*** At this point, she runs out of the bar to chase after me. This is the most tell-tale sign that a chick likes you. It’s basically the chick version of cold approach.
3:33- Did you think I was joking?
3:34- Did you think I was joking?
3:36- About what?
3:37- About calling me?
3:38- Yea I’ll get your number come here.
3:44- Oh my God you’re like hella buff. I didn’t realize that when you were sitting down. *** She is complimenting me here. This is a tell-tale sign.
3:57- She puts her number in my phone.
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