Sonny’s Guide to Screening: Part VI (White Girls)
Race ABSOLUTELY Matters.
Race plays a big role in the dating realm. A chick’s racial background can heavily impact the amount of time it will take for you to bang her. YOUR race also plays a big factor on whether or not you even have a chance. I break it all down in this article on white girls.
I am a firm believer in stereotyping. Stereotyping saves time. Whether we want to admit it or not, we all do it to some extent. No one wants to take the time to fully understand someone else’s story. We are a world that functions in CliffsNotes Mode.
The same logic applies to going out to get laid. There are some chicks that are naturally more down than others. This is not a bad thing.
If you bang a chick after knowing her for only a few hours, she is probably not relationship material. If it takes some time and effort, she’s probably better in the long term.
Based upon years of experience partying and regulating every shade of the chick rainbow, I am 100% confident in this idea of screening chicks based on race when you are out trying to get laid. It’s not bulletproof but it is accurate within reason.
Are there exceptions? Of course. Nothing is absolute. But this is about saving time and being reasonably accurate…
It’s about playing the game with the odds in YOUR FAVOR
I break it down into 3 levels. In general, the top level is where your odds are most in your favor (greatest probability of closing fast). As you progress downward, your odds decrease (take more time/effort on your part).
There are exceptions/factors that might bump them up/down. Those circumstances will be explained. Here you go:
Black Middle Eastern/Persian/Indian
White chicks are poppin.
I love white girls. In fact, purely guessing, I would say that 95% of all my sexual experience has been with white girls.
White girls are awesome because it is with them where the odds are most likely in your favor of getting lucky fast.
There are underlying reasons for this.
A typical white girl doesn’t have to grow up experiencing a lot of the problems or harsh realities that chicks of other races often come across. Society caters to them and puts them on a pedestal. If they mess up, there’s usually someone there to pick up the pieces or just deal with the problem for them.
They are the most universally desired chicks. The demand will always be high for an attractive white girl. They are a status raiser. A minority man who is able to date/lock down a white girl raises his status significantly.
Ultimately, the world is very much sunshine and rainbows for young, attractive white girls. There’s no real consequences that they have to deal with. And as result, they are often the wildest, craziest chicks out partying/engaging in risky behavior.
The fear or even hesitation to engage in risky behavior (drinking/doing drugs/multiple sexual partners) is just not as evident with white chicks because of the general lack of consequences they have to deal with.
Just telling it like it is (usually goes). So in reality, the majority of chicks you hit on any given night should generally be white because of this stereotype of less hesitation to do something risky.
However, the odds are absolutely impacted by YOUR RACE. Everyone sees color, especially chicks. Of course they stereotype… after all, they are very skilled SCREENERS themselves.
Again, these are not absolute. If a dude is good looking/masculine/dresses well/is perceived to be cool… his ethnicity will not hinder him. He has a chance at getting a white girl. Also it depends on the chick. Some white chicks are absolutely obsessed with dating men of a particular race (think Kim Kardashian).
White Guys are the “safe choice.”
The odds are usually in the favor of white guys. They are the most universally sought after (evident with Latinas and Asians). But this is also what white chicks mostly grew up around and probably have the most experience dating.
It’s natural to stick with your own race. It’s the “safest” race because the odds of success/power in this world is heavily in the white man’s favor. High school history class should have taught you this.
A white guy is always perceived to be at least on a white chick’s level (or above it). The only exception is if there is a significant socio-economic or looks gap between the two.
Although we have come a long way, downgraded interracial dating (white girl with a male of color) will never quite fully be accepted. It will always be looked down upon or seen as “not natural” by some.
If she comes from an ultra-conservative background that might be the case. Ultra-conservative chicks who come from OLD MONEY are expected to date white guys from similar backgrounds.
There’s no real negative stereotypes for white guys except for when they are compared to black guys (more on that below).
Mixed Race (Outliers) are the Wild Cards.
If you are some sort of mixed minority, the odds could definitely be in your favor. White chicks like anything perceived as exotic or different. Also there’s no real stereotype for mixed races.
If anything, being mixed race garners a bit more interest because the mystery of what ethnicity you are will need to be answered.
White chicks all want to try something a little different (at least once). Even the ultra-conservative ones might let you stick them (depending on what you bring to the table).
Back in college, I hooked up with a few very conservative white chicks that definitely came from OLD MONEY and generations of Conservative views. They would never consider “dating me” and would certainly NEVER EVER introduce me to their parents… not being white and filthy rich would be looked down upon or “beneath them.”
But I would be the guy that they secretly texted at 2 AM when they needed their medicine.
On the flip side, being mixed can sometimes be a status raiser for chick… such as her friends all dating white guys but she’s the one dating a half X/ half X guy.
Outliers/Mixed Race could almost be looked at as similar to the curiosity of dating a black dude (want to see what it’s like) but without having to deal with the negative stereotypes.
Black Guys are the “dangerous choice”.
The odds are still not in your favor due to societal constraints. That taboo of a white girl with a black man is still present in our society today. It’s gotten a little more widely accepted recently though.
Black guys have a lot of negative stereotypes but the one positive one trumps them all… the stereotype of black dudes being strapped. Everyone knows this one. The other ones include being better athletes and just being “cooler/smoother” in general.
Of course chicks know about it and they wonder… “What’s it like?”
Every white chick wonders what it would be like get with a black dude. Some never act on this curiosity… but some do (especially in their college years).
The easiest way for a black dude to increase his odds is to build the best body possible and just look your best. A jacked black dude can absolutely wreck white chicks just based off of the whole aura of dominance/intimidation.
As far as style is concerned, you want to be: clean cut/fresh (fade, maybe some tats/earrings, button down/Polo) versus broke ass ni**a (XXXL throwback jerseys, Tim’s, fake jewelry)
*** Some of my best friends/guys I’ve winged with over the years have been black. I like winging with black dudes because of “perceived contrast”… a very important concept (more on that when I write a series on Wingman).
Summer 2011 (Washington DC) – My 2 best friends were these black dudes from Tennessee. We always went out and got white chicks. They are the real old school soul brotha types that dress well.
MY TOP WING (Las Vegas) – My buddy in Vegas is a 6’3” jacked black dude who looks like a young Deion Sanders (rocks a fade though). Anytime we go out… all I can say is that it’s game over.
Also developing the ability to adjust from the black world vs. the white world… There are two different worlds and having the ability to socially exist in both puts the odds in your favor. That reverts back to overall multi-dimensionality.
Maximizing your income/professional career also puts the odds in your favor because your network will put you in greater contact with white chicks (of high class).
*** FOR COLD APPROACH: I would also say focus on brunette chicks of Mediterranean descent such as Greek/Italian chicks, those are the white chicks that seem to be most down for dating/hooking up with black dudes.
*** Same goes for chicks with perceived “daddy issues” or an agenda to make their father angry… more applicable for long term.
A little spice (Latin) never hurt anyone.
There aren’t any real crippling stereotypes for you guys. Sometimes people get in the bad habit of thinking of anybody of Spanish/Latin descent and relating them to the image of a typical Mexican day laborer or just someone who is dirty.
Ultimately, dudes of Spanish/Latino descent can be looked down as not being on a white chick’s level. It depends on how conservative the white chick is.
But like the black dude, white chicks also might wonder what it would be like. White chicks can be intrigued by the exotic/spice element to dating a dude of Spanish/Latin descent.
*** Also, you guys are often seen as being a little more dominant/aggressive so that can definitely be a positive.
You guys can increase your odds with white chicks by taking care of what universally matters (10 Laws). Being Spanish/Latino definitely brings the exotic element into the mix that can definitely be utilized. If you’re smooth and can dance, you significantly put the odds in your favor.
Asians: Don’t Give Up!
I’m sorry to say it but being perceived as “fully Asian” makes the game very difficult when trying to get white chicks. There’s a lot of negative stereotypes for Asian men that pretty much cripple their chances at getting white chicks (being nerdy, small/timid, having small dicks, etc.)
These stereotypes exist. Let’s be clear of that right now. It’s not too common that a hot white chick’s first choice is to date an Asian dude. It’s just not.
The odds are not in your favor with white chicks. Going out spam approaching chicks does not put the odds in your favor. Your main focus should be to GET THE ODDS IN YOUR FAVOR!!!
*** HINT: Studying game does not put the odds in your favor because the PUA concept of GAME is of little value in real life.
If all you do is study GAME and don’t work on anything else, your best bet at getting a white girl is if you run into one who has an Asian fetish, one who is very drunk, or a Liberal Hippie Chick.
If you are a hardcore Asian kid who wants hot white chicks, you put the odds in your favor by doing the following…
Dressing Better (white boy swag)
Getting a Cool Social Circle (made up of mostly White kids)
Avoiding hanging out with a “pack of Asians” at all times
*** Cool talent/hobby you are known for
*** Having an American accent helps (don’t worry if you don’t)
*** Being tall
*** Living in New York City or Southern California
I have known several “hardcore Asians” over the years that were able to get white chicks consistently. Here’s the breakdown:
Best Friend in Business School: Chinese 5’11” jacked (lifted weights); style was Cali Swag (always wore tanks and fitted hats); best electric guitar player ever… dates white girls
Friend in High School: 5’5”? skinny; style was a little hood (wore Ecko/South Pole, had earrings); best break dancer around; cool kid who had cool white friends… dated hot white girls
Father: 5’3” pretty jacked, impeccable wardrobe back in the day (dressed preppy and also rocked suits); ELITE SOCIAL CIRCLE (in NYC in 1980s); cool dude/street guy that got along with people easily…. Dated hot white girls
Myself (early years): started off high school small; 3 sport athlete; really good at baseball (moved up to Varsity Freshman year); had a lot of older friends (had status from being accepted among older/cool kids); style was hood (Ecko/South Pole/throwback jerseys when they were cool)…. Dated hot white girls
Indians (and everybody else) need to knock it out the park.
I think Indian dudes have it the hardest when it comes to white chicks. I personally have never seen an Indian dude dating a white chick unless he was really bringing something to the table. These include:
Being Filthy Rich
Being Very Handsome
Being in an Elite Social Circle
There’s a lot of negative stereotypes that society has about Indian people… being dirty/smelly, being creepy/socially awkward, being nerdy.
It’s unfortunate because I know that this demographic makes up a significant chunk of the clientele/audience of PUA sites. But like I said, PUA advice does not increase your odds really. The only thing that might help is the getting out of the house/social aspect if the guy is a hardcore introvert.
Bottom Line: Hardcore Indian dudes need to absolutely do everything they can to knock it out the park with the stuff that matters.
Maximize your looks by lifting weights and dress well, get in with a cool social circle (made up of mostly white people), get money.
Also it’s in your best interest to consider moving somewhere like New York City or somewhere in Southern California.
Middle Eastern/Persian guys might have it a little bit easier due to generally having lighter features than Indians. But they also need to knock it out the park as well.
That’s it for now. I think I basically said what was necessary for white girls. This article was not meant to offend anyone. It’s reality.